Meet your wedding Officiant

My Story

The personal side of Ruth:

• A detail-oriented, kind, empathetic, compassionate, humorous person, and an active listener who is genuinely caring.

• Mother of two wonderful adult children who loves celebrating life and love.

• Enjoy celebrating achievements both big and small.

• Love to travel, and have particularly enjoyed cruising/travelling in the Caribbean and Hawaii.

• Love seeing people happy and having fun

• Enjoy music, dancing, board games, reading, writing and watching documentaries.

The professional side of Ruth:

• Certified Wedding Officiant

• Member of OAPWO (Ontario Association of Professional Wedding Officiants)

• Formerly a Family Lawyer in Uganda

• Former Case Manager for Niagara Region for 25 years.

• Leadership Award (SAEO)

• Innovation Award (SAEO)

• I am a Certified Forgiveness and Relationship Coach

• I offer Bereavement coaching in a safe and supportative environment.

• Provide Pre-Marital, Post Honeymoon and Six Months’ Follow-up Counselling, as a member of the American Association of Christian Counselors (AACC).

• Experienced Public Speaker in both church and non-church settings.

The passionate side of Ruth:

• Passionate about:

  • Spending time with family and friends.

  • Collaborating with couples in designing a unique personal wedding tailored to their values, style and dreams, regardless of their religious or ethnic background.

  • Helping others to achieve and maintain happy, healthy relationships.

  • Advocating for, and encouraging those who are hurting, plus the vulnerable or marginalized.

  • Making a positive impact in the world.

  • Encouraging people during terminal illness, grief and bereavement.

  • Passing on the grace I have received, by teaching and empowering others to achieve their full potential.

Working Together

You have booked me to perform your wedding ceremony - what’s next? Here are a few recommendations for you to have the best possible wedding day experience.

Communicate with me: Right from the initial complimentary consultation by zoom, or in person, I am happy to answer any questions you have as you prepare for your wedding day. I am here to guide and support you along the way.

Consult me before making changes: If you decide to change the date, time or location of your ceremony, please contact me first to confirm my availability. Due to other bookings I may not be able to accommodate your change.

Select your ceremony content: Remember to choose your wedding ceremony content at least 4 weeks before your wedding day, and email it to me for us to review during your second complimentary consultation.

Be Creative: I am here to support you to create a unique ceremony that reflects your values, style and personality as a couple. Feel free to ask for my suggestions on how to make your day memorable and magical.

Set up a second meeting: Contact me to set up a second meeting scheduled 3-4 weeks before your wedding by zoom or in person, to review your ceremony content, confirm the details for your ceremony, and provide your balance owing (if needed).

Trust my experience: Over the years I have accumulated much experience and expertise. I know the industry, the other wedding professionals, and how to guide you through the entire process. Ask for help with anything and trust my experience.

Wedding day expectations: I plan to arrive 30-45 minutes before your ceremony. Upon arrival, I will connect with the groom and groomsmen, make sure the license and rings are in place, and speak with the other wedding professionals (musicians, photographer, etc.). I will coordinate the details of the processional and confidently conduct the ceremony. Be assured, you are in good hands.

I am looking forward to working together with you.